我是「在開普敦生活」的作者小小心心，以下簡稱之「小心」，也是在這個網站上唯一的作者。
我的家鄉是在台南非常純樸的地方，以前的台南還沒有跟台南縣統一成大台南時，真正的台南市其實是很小的地方，騎著腳踏車就能繞完整個台南市。
我的生長歷程有點特殊，在我還沒有懂事的時候，父母就離婚了，而我在5、6歲正懵懂記事的時候才從母親娘家回到父親家裡；小時候的我很內向怕生，也許是環境的關係吧！讓我對陌生的環境建起了一道牆；家裡只有兄弟沒有姐妹，可想而知，在我心裡總是覺得跟家裡格格不入。
父親是開檳榔攤的小攤販，早期80~90年代的台灣，不管做什麼樣的生意都能賺錢，所以我們家也有好過的時候，但隨著時代的變遷，家裡也從小康走向負債；從貸款買房走向法院拍賣。
對很多人來說這可能是一段不算快樂的回憶，年輕時的我也是如此；但並不是因為自己的單親關係，而是看到家裡從有錢到沒錢的心路歷程，深深的讓我正視了，賺錢的重要性。
也因此，在我高職夜校畢業後，不顧父親的反對，先斬後奏的把自己給「搬出來」，獨自一個人在外生活。
我知道我將面臨的是什麼樣的生活，我可以一天打3份工作，只為了讓自己的生活費有著落；我可以一天只睡4個小時，只因為不願再花家裡的一分錢。
那時我就在想，如果可以有被動收入，就不用那麼辛苦的工作了；也因為我常常跑到網咖上網，查詢被動收入的相關訊息。
10年前的網上資訊其實很保守，不容易找到被動收入的訊息，有的也是做房地產、直銷，又或是投資股票等等的；時代的進步，現在被動收入的資訊千變萬化，也因為如此，常常被有心人事利用做違法的事。
由於我經常上網的原因而認識到我的先生，讓遠在南非的他與我相知相惜，讓我機會跟隨他到南非來生活，其生活不算富裕，但也是一個讓我有學習成長的空間，過上其他人不一樣的生活。
如今的我有3個可愛的孩子，生活也很簡單清閒；回憶過去，那時的我就像是一個剛在學走路的小孩一樣，跌跌撞撞的成長，但我並不會覺得有什麼不對或不好，這是我的成長過程，都會遇到的困難，又何必去逃避呢！
每個人的命運不同，有的人會覺得：也許我命該如此吧！但是在我的觀念裡，命是該順，但不該認，只有自己幫自己，別人才會幫你；而且更要懂得愛自己，別人才會愛你。
感謝我的父親，給我養分成長；感謝我的兄長，陪伴我的成長；也許在這個過程中有過許多不愉快，但我還是心存感激。
希望這篇文章能給您不一樣的啟發，也期望大家能平安健康！
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很喜歡版主的這段話” 命是該順，但不該認，只有自己幫自己，別人才會幫你；而且更要懂得愛自己，別人才會愛你。
聽了我好有感觸，因為我….很認命，總覺得這輩子是來還親情債的，可以我剛我看了妳這句…..我眼角濕了
謝謝版主這句話，我要跟妳學習，努力讓自己過更好
人生本來就很苦短，可能是因為我的成長過程比較不一樣，所以很多事都看得比較客觀，快樂也是一天，難過也是一天，記得要愛自己，願你一切順心！
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